the pile

How much longer can I wait it out?

I've done at least the last 5 loads of dishes, and they're are another 2-3 on the counter.

I've been the one to cook meals for us both, and yet, no cleanup besides the cleanup I've done has been happening.

She cleans up periodically after the cats, but they're her burden (in my eyes, your cats = your cleanup).

So, the dilemma, I like to eat food, but now there's almost no dishes left to eat off of.... Do I wait it out still, or do I do some dishes?

Yes, we've had the we both should do dishes discussion before.