A little bit is too much to ask?

I've been thinking, and really I haven't had a girl that was ever a little into me.

They've always been WAY into me.

Not like a "hey let's see how this goes," but always it seems to be a "you are what I want."

Is my lack of caring about dating really a big impact on such things?

Or is it something else?

This is why I don't date, it's just over-the-top to me. I have no "picker" I just get picked, and that would be another reason.